Competition shows up in different ways.
Keep up with Jones is one. If he has it, I should, too.
Head-on arguments count. Winning an argument feels like winning a competition.
Building up power and taking control of a situation is another.
When there is competition, there is always winning and losing.
Instead of seeking to win, it helps to focus on what’s working and what’s not.
Because short-term wins can result in losing in the long run.
