We can choose to serve others while satisfying our own needs, too. But when there is a conflict between serving others and self-serving, we'll need to choose.
Doing something that makes you feel good, but at the expense of others, clearly won't work for them.
Denying it only makes it worse.
The alternative is to understand who you are here to serve. With the clarity, we have a better chance of knowing what to do next.
