Strategy abundance teaches us there are other ways to solve an issue, so we are not limited to one way when it's not working.
Often, the abundance comes as a suggestion to apply towards our relationship: if the connection with our partner doesn’t work, we should find someone else to partner with.
It might be true that the result can be achieved by partnering with the other people, but we miss the whole point here for being in a relationship.
Instead of choosing the others, maybe facing the issues by having an honest conversation with our partner is a better way to go.
Because deep down inside, we know that a bigger pain is waiting for us down the road if we keep chasing the temporary comfort and avoiding the pain.
Beware of the abundance trap.