Is to see ourselves objectively. There are both positive and negative aspects to this. The positive is that we can tell ourselves to keep learning and stay focused, pushing forward (not attached to what we have achieved). However, the downside is that we often fail to see ourselves – we underestimate our true power.
Interacting with others is not only an effective way to learn about them, but also an opportunity to see ourselves – what we agree on and what we disagree with; what we value; and, more importantly, what we can contribute to make a difference.