We are miserable so we ask:
Why things are not working for me?
What is my purpose in this life?
How can I gain followers like an influencer?
What if they don’t like me?
When we change the frame of the questions, our focus changes too:
Why things are not working in this situation?
What is the purpose in life?
How do people find this kind of service online?
What do they disagree with?
When putting our misery into perspective, it helps to peel a layer back and see everything more objectively.