Here's how to play other people's game: these are the rules; this is how you interpret the signs; those are the people to please and fit in, and the relevant narratives say this because all of the above is to serve___.
When you see the game, you can evaluate and decide.
But before understanding the game, it's helpful to lead your learning with questions.
Judgment is useless if we don't know what we disagree with and what better looks like.
