When conflict happens, people respond in 2 ways: accept the differences and part ways, or understand the differences and reconnect.
When reconnect, verbal communication is an important part of the effort. It carries important information about our intention and alignment: the words we choose to speak, the tone we speak with, and the energy that is carried through our words.
There is communicating our alignment with the others, and there is speaking a language.
The former connects, the latter is a hit-and-miss.
